Ego
Speak to us about the human ego.
The ego is that very thing which limits us in every
sphere of life. We are God's children; we are one with
God. But the ego makes us feel that we do not belong
to God, that we are perfect strangers to Him. At best,
it makes us feel that we are going to God, not that
we are in God.
The ego does not like to feel that someone else has
more capacity or that someone else can do something
which it cannot do. At one time ego will make us feel
that we are nothing and at another time it will make
us feel that we are everything. We have to be careful
of both of our feelings of importance and our feelings
of unimportance. We have to say that if God wants us
to be nothing, then we will gladly be nothing, and if
God wants us to be everything, we will be everything
gladly. We have to surrender unconditionally and cheerfully
to the Will of God. If He wants us to be His peers,
we shall be. If He wants us to be His true representative
on earth, we shall be. “Let Thy Will be done.”
How can I conquer
ego?
Ego is separativity and individuality. Separativity
and human individuality cannot live in the sea of oneness
and universality. The ego deals only with the person
and his possessions. If we deal with the Universal Consciousness,
we become the entire universe. In this consciousness
we do not act like a tiny individual who can only claim
himself and feel, "This is my property. This is
my capacity. This is my achievement." No, at that
time we will say, "All achievements are mine. There
is nothing that I cannot claim as my very own."
The easiest way to conquer ego is to offer gratitude
to God for five minutes daily. Then you will feel that
inside you a sweet, fragrant and beautiful flower is
growing. That is the flower of humility. When you offer
Him your gratitude, God gives you something most beautiful,
which is humility. Once it has seen the flower of humility,
the ego goes away because it feels that it can become
something better: universal oneness.
The ego always tries to possess things for itself. But
when we transcend ego, we try to give everything for
God's Satisfaction, for the world's satisfaction and
for our soul's satisfaction.
